I Live Here

When we first moved to New York, H1 and I would utter the words, 'We live here' in voices tainted with an interesting combination of awe, horror, and confusion, every time we saw something that brought the obvious home to us with a shocking jolt - the view over Central Park, the hot dog vendors on every street corner, the hordes of yellow taxis clogging up the roads, the Empire State building all lit up - and we would laugh, because really, what else can you do when a place that is so completely familiar, yet is so totally bizarre, is suddenly your home?

As we've slowly settled in, and the familiarity has grown and changed to the familiarity associated with the everyday recognisable, we have said it less often, even though it is no less amazing today than it was just a few short months ago. It's funny, however, because although I'm quite aware that we do live in New York (yes, fully cognizant of my surroundings, thank you) I also feel that primarily we live in Murray Hill, with New York coming in a distant second to that.

Murray Hill is my neighbourhood, you see, just as Fulham was in London. New York is a different place from London, of course, and the whole idea of the city being merely a series of villages attached by a decent public transportation system is much less convincing here, but that idea does still have some relevance. The village part, that is. The public transportation is most definitely not decent here (hence the hordes of yellow taxis, I suppose). But New York - or even just Manhattan - does have a certain definition around the 'villages' that create this whole.

Where I live, Murray Hill, is a slight incline (I know - who'd have thought, right?) taking tired feet away from the rush of Midtown. You walk down it, and to the east of aforementioned Empire State Building, and as if by magic, gone are the business men and the bulk of the tourists (not all. Some get lost, you see, and wander round with their maps upside down, peering hopefully at every green patch in case it's Central Park). It's a funny, patchy area, with hushed, tree-lined streets concealing classically discreet townhouses worth eye-watering amounts, which snuggle up against wider, busier thoroughfares that brashly display their size and credentials to the world. Flower shops and delis that look like they have always been here, as if they just grew out of the ground a long time ago, are juxtaposed with an entire avenue of bars and restaurants that make you want to eat and party, no matter the time of day.

The people of Murray Hill are predominantly young, which could just possibly have some correlation with the proliferation of bars. Lots of students from NYU Medical School base themselves here. I shouldn't know that, because one would assume they are always studying, but apparently there is a library in the back of some of the more 'frat-boy' establishments. That's where they spend a healthy amount of time, anyway (yes, pun completely intended). There are a few older people, mainly of the 'lady with small dog and fur coat variety' - a fact which makes me very happy. And there are a few - a very few - kids, most likely belonging to those not willing to change their lifestyles too dramatically just for the sake of children (not meant to be condemnatory - I very much intend to be one of those people).

It's a nice little corner of New York, not completely charming, like the West Village, not completely cool, like the Meatpacking District, not different and edgy, like Williamsburg - but with enough of each of those to keep the H's happy. We like it, a lot - enough that now when we say it, it's with happiness and contentment, every time. We live here.

Here Comes the Sun

According to my Google weather, the next few days are going to be sunny, sunny, sunny.

Yes. That's right. I'm actually talking about the weather*. I've been reduced to this. You know what they say, you can take the girl out of London...

In all seriousness, I have to admit I'm not in the slightest bit sorry, embarrassed, dismayed, or any of the other emotions one should probably feel when they actually want to talk about the weather. Here, the weather is noteworthy. Trust me, it's worth talking about.

You see, here it's not just weather, at least not as I know it. My entire life, I've always known the weather to be fickle and uncontrollable, unable to be predicted or planned around. Apparently this is because I've always lived on narrow islands, which are subject to any weather conditions that may choose to eventuate, no matter how bizarre or inconvenient**. And while I guess I technically still live on a narrow island, it's a pretty sheltered one, with one ridiculously ginormous land mass right next to it - which I suppose diminishes the island effect sufficiently.

And so, the weather is - well, it's great. Even when the all-knowing Google's not telling me that it's going to be sunny for the foreseeable future, it's still great, because I know that whatever Google's telling me is actually the way it will be. If it says sunny, I take sunglasses. If it says cold, I take a scarf. If it says rainy, I take an umbrella***. I no longer have to throw them all into my bag, hoping at least one will hit the mark.

Yes, it's a peaceful, predictable, sort of life I live these days****, thanks to the weather. In New York even. Who would have thought?

Stay tuned for the next post - why the seasons are great here*****!

*I would be talking about the Mark Ronson gig I went to, on a Tuesday night no less, stunning you all with my total coolness and disregard for the working week, buuuuut I didn't go. Because the night before I badly hurt my neck and shoulder, and I was in too much pain. While I was sleeping. Stunning, yes, but not in the way I intended.

**This is how the meteorologists explain it, anyway - of course, it could just be a cunning way to make it okay for them to be wrong 50% of the time, and still keep their jobs.

***Or I cancel everything and refuse to leave my house. I'm not sure how London got its reputation for rain, and New York avoided it, because wow. Rain here is far more than just innocent rain, and the only reasonable reaction to it, at least in my experience, is to start drawing up the designs for a nice spacious ark.

****And therefore, it's a peaceful, predictable sort of life that gets chronicled here. Sorry about that. I will work on it, I promise.

*****Not actually. I promised action, you'll get action! (Aren't you all missing the excitement of the Fulham days right now?)

Nothing to See Here

The noise woke us both up from a deep dreamless sleep.

BANG!

The echo reverberated around our apartment, followed by an eerie silence.

I wriggled a little further down into my pillows, muttering to H1 as I did so.

"Gunshot or car?"

I felt him shrug*, then slowly he heaved himself up and over to the window. A crack of light fell across the bed as the curtains parted slightly, then darkness encompassed me again as he returned. He spoke.

"Don't know. Car, I guess. Nothing's happening outside."

I nodded, already mostly asleep again. Conversation was done for the night. Nothing further disturbed us.

And such is life in New York. Now, anyway. There definitely was once a time when I wouldn't have been nearly so blase about such a noise. Less than three months ago, actually. When I was was a newbie, nervous and on edge almost all the time. always conscious of what was happening around me.

I really was. Much fun of me was made by H1, for the way I ensured my bag was always zipped and held close to my side, for the way I couldn't relax if I couldn't see or feel it when in restaurants and cafes, for the constant slight jumpiness I exhibited. I don't condemn him for this - in fact, I agree. Now. Back then I thought I was being completely reasonable.

No, now I have chilled out an almost obscene amount. While I don't quite swing my bag around my head, or throw the contents into the street for display, or gallivant my way down dodgy alleys wearing all my jewellery, it's not a far-off thing. I can eat my dinner without looping my ankle through my bag strap, and when there is a distinctly gun-like sound outside my apartment at night, I barely stir.

It's a natural progression. It's not because I've heard so many gunshots** I've become immune. Quite the opposite. It's because nothing has happened. Nothing bad, at all.

And yes, it's only been three months, but hey, it's New York. It has a well-publicised crime rate, which also happens to be fairly high (to my unaccustomed eyes, used to the quiet, unassuming streets of Torbay and Fulham). There was a reason I was nervous.

I've just realised I don't have to be. I don't remember ever being more conscious of safety when new to London, but I'm sure I must have been, at least until I realised the glaring truth that has also revealed itself in New York - when you're in a busy city, you're pretty much constantly surrounded by other people, and that means that you're probably really quite safe. It's probably even safer here than in London, in fact, if only because Londoners are quite likely to consider someone being mugged to be none of their business. In New York, everything's everyone's business. If I were ever mugged in public, I would be inclined to feel sorrier for the mugger.

Not that that's going to happen. Not only because it would have to be a sensationally stupid mugger (I'm sure they exist) but because most people, when it comes down to it, are good, and most of the time, everyone is perfectly safe. On the busy streets, in crowded restaurants, in bed.

It's a reassuring thought.

*If you are my grandmother, I felt him shrug from his room. Away from my room. Far, far away.

**I truly haven't, despite living in the States, all parents who may be reading - can't emphasise that enough.